International Women’s Day is being dumbed down. Have you noticed? This has been bugging me for a while but it hit a crescendo with an invitation landing in my inbox to an IWD event to be hosted by a national organisation for leaders.
Tucked away behind the headlines of the stellar line up of television personalities, politicians and style icons, all getting together for a “long lunch” to celebrate “women’s big day” was the price tag: $199 per ticket.
Another day, another invitation, another event: $135.
Another day, another invitation, to yet another event: $95.
On and on and on, they continue to arrive. Networking event after networking event after networking event.
Has this become just another commercialized occasion, marked by attendance at yet another overcrowded event, in a nondescript five-star venue?
And is it just me, or does anyone else think $200 is a lot to spend on lunch?
International Women’s Day is a very special time of year for me. It’s a time to reflect on just how far women have come, how much we’ve achieved, and the massive contribution women make to the communities we live in. Because of that, I’m celebrating by giving away copies of my book – written as a gift of inspiration for when the going gets tough – during the month of March. But more about that later.
Every year, on the 8th of March, I join with fellow citizens of the globe in celebrating the social, economic, cultural and political achievements of women. And the ongoing efforts we must exert towards accelerating gender parity.
Because, believe it or not, even in Australia, gender parity is a long way off.
Let’s not forget, as participants ham it up in capital cities at silver service restaurants with million dollar views, there is another cohort of women for whom the struggle isn’t over.
Here in Australia, just under half a million women have reported experiencing physical or sexual violence or sexual assault in the past 12 months.
In Australia, domestic violence is the leading cause of death and injury in women under 45, with more than one woman murdered by her current or former partner every week.
In Australia, one in two mothers reported experiencing discrimination in the workplace at some point.
And the national gender pay gap is currently 17.9% and has hovered between 15% and 19% for the past two decades, meaning that an Australian female performing an equivalent role to an Australian male will take home only 80 cents for every full dollar that her male peer earns.
Globally, women make up half the world’s population and yet represent a staggering 70% of the world’s poor. Women make up 70% of the world’s working hours and earn only 10% of the world’s income and half of what men earn. And – particularly in the developing world – they are still too often denied access to basic education and health care.
To be clear, I have $200 in my bank account that I could spend on that lunch: for that I am thankful and there’s no doubt I live a privileged life. And that’s the reason why, this year, I’m choosing to do more.
So this International Women’s Day, I’ve chosen to support three organisations whose work will continue long after the waiters have cleared the tables:
- The Luke Batty Foundation, because I still cry every time I see a photo of that gorgeous little boy, murdered by his father, and I believe no mother should have to endure what Rosie Batty endured. And because I believe Rosie Batty when she says she won’t stop until family violence is a thing of the past, but she needs money to make that happen;
- The White Ribbon Foundation, because the impact of domestic violence against women is real and pervasive across our community; it has a real and long term impact on the lives and earning capacity of women affected; and because we need for men to get involved in creating the change; and
- OzHarvest, because for every dollar I give to Ronni at OzHarvest (and she’s not shy about asking!!) her team can deliver two meals to hungry Australians. Women and kids who flee violent situations have to leave their homes, kitchens and income behind them, and they really rely on the work of OzHarvest and the charities it supports for the most basic human right – nutrition – and I love the simplicity of the OzHarvest model in addressing this problem.
Supporting organisations that actually get stuff done is really important, because it’s what happens IN BETWEEN the celebrations that really counts; and it’s the level of sustained and ongoing activity that determines whether those great ideas and theories postulated on IWD either turn into outcomes, or fizzle into the oblivion.
And yes, I’ll also be celebrating over the month of March, with many of my friends. If you decide to get along to an organised event, please consider attending one with an appropriate charity partner. There are many to choose from.
If you don’t have anything planned, why not get a group of your friends or colleagues together in your local coffee shop to reflect on your achievements and those of the women around you. You and your friends can order a free copy of my book – with my compliments – to mark the occasion. And why would I do that? Because I can.
(Note: if you want to place bulk orders for your team, please contact me ASAP so we can get it organised in time).
And perhaps you will consider donating some or all of the book’s $20 retail price to a charity that supports women in need, be they in Australia or around the world.
This International Women’s Day, don’t just be a passive participant. You can do more than that. You can be more than that. You are more than that.
The question is, how will you show it?
Over to you!
Beautiful Jen – thank you for clarifying why I should celebrate iwd
I previously could not see through the commercialisation and also the excuse for business development
Now I understand and will follow your sentiment
Jen Dalitz says
It’s certainly easy to get swept up in the wave Amelia… it just seems this year to be a tsunami of silliness! We’re all onto the real message now though 🙂
Suzanne Mercier says
Eloquent and to the point. Totally agree Jen.
Jen Dalitz says
And I know IWD means a lot to you too Suzanne. We must catch up its been ages!!!
Kim McGuinness says
Great post Jen. I reckon Ronni should host a lunch where we get the meals she serves to those who are needy and we pay $200 for the privilege – then she could serve 199 (or more – but I think it is $1 per meal) more to others for every ticket! There could be sponsors who supply the tables, chairs and venue (and wine). I’d much rather pay for that than making someone else rich! There is a reason Network Central never ran an exclusive IWD event and you have hit the nail right on the head!
Jen Dalitz says
That is a great idea Kim… let me see what we can do!!!
After recently watching the movie The Suffragette, I am even more grateful to celebrate women’s achievements, particularly the struggles and battles those before us had to make our world a better place!!
Jen Dalitz says
Oh I still haven’t seen The Suffragette… I’m a big DVD fan, love watching them at the farm on the big TV on a Saturday night. Much more comfy and better catering than the cinema LOL
Some years ago now the International Women’s Development Agency (based in Melbourne) ran a campaign asking women who could manage it to celebrate IWD by giving a day’s pay. To me it’s a meaningful way to celebrate it, regardless of where anyone chooses to direct the funds.
Jen Dalitz says
I think I remember that campaign, Kris, what a great idea and it also gets us thinking about personal finances and what we actually earn in a day (and how that compares with how we spend our time!!!)
Lisa Acret says
Hi Jen, I totally agree with you! Our Qld Trucking Association Breakfast event in Brisbane for Women in Road Transport is celebrating its 5th year this year. We continue to use venues outside the city so parking doesn’t cost more than the ticket and our tickets are under $50/head. We would rather that our guests be able to support our chosen Not for Profits by buying raffle tickets than spending extra on a ticket and parking. This year we have chosen ‘Mummy’s Wish’ as our raffle recipient as they helped me during my cancer saga and also ‘Share the Dignity’ who ask for donations of sanitary items for women in need. Well done on publishing your book and you will have 250 people in Brisbane reading your insights, advice and life lessons. Thanks again Jen. Lisa x
Jen Dalitz says
That sounds like an awesome way to celebrate IWD Lisa, thanks for sharing and hope it’s a fabulous celebration for everyone in attendance, and that the charities are able to do more of their good work as a result.